The Power of Silence |5 Reasons Why Silent people are Successful|

The Power of Silence |5 Reasons Why Silent people are Successful|

 buddha said before you speak let your 

word pass through three gates is it valuable 

is it necessary and is it making any

difference and the person who understand

it that what when where and how much to speak no one can stop that person from being successful a spoken word never comes back just like a spent arrow never comes back

words are like weapons that you must be learned to use it properly because the person who have no control over their speaking

always put himself in trouble they lost control over everything even today people only speak to humiliate each

other sometimes they speak without any reason just to get valid but rewards are very powerful and it can change the world

if you know how to speak so the people who knows when to speak and how much to speak are very strong and very powerful now let me make it clear

silence is not meaning to stay without saying a word here silence means not speaking anything without any valuable reason

it means speaking only when it is necessary or valuable silence means laser focus silence means focusing on your goal focusing on your work

so today i will tell you five powerful benefits of being silenced and it will transform your life completely

number one silence makes your opponent confused the greatest warrior sons who said

he will we who knows when to speak and why not to speak

he said he defeated thousands of his enemies with his power of silence so many times he puts his enemies into

deep thinking by staying silence he said

when you stay silence it makes your enemies perplexed

and they start thinking about you and you and your plan that what you are gonna do what's your next move because of the fear and in

this way they lost focus on their own

goals and this is how you can keep your plans secret and this is how you can take advantage from silence and at the end the game is yours you can win it in your style

number two silence builds laser focus silence is not the absence of words but the presence of focus silence people have lots of ideas and things to say but they don't speak

unless it is necessary if you want to do something big in life or if you work on any kind of project then what would you do to get success you need focus and

what did you need to have that kind of laser focus

you need to stop focusing on multiple things and keep quiet let me tell you a story in a mosque in his childhood used to stay silent most of the time so their

parents thought he had a year problem because most of the time he can't listen anything so their parents took him to the hospital but the doctor said he's well and ultimately they found out the

reason that why he can't used to hear anything because his study with laser focus now you can see the power of silence laser focus puts you in deep

silence and deep silence helps you to achieve laser focus number three silence gets people attention

now you are gonna realize how silence gets people's attention if you have ever been in a classroom or in a group situation you have most likely experienced

how silence often gets everyone's attention if the teacher is talking away the listeners minds might start to wonder

when the speaker stops talking a signal goes to the brain that something has happened all of them suddenly pay attention to try and figure out why communication has stopped the same is true in our daily conversation

if we are silent people take note and we gain their attention if you stay silent and focus on your goal if you speak only when it is necessary then people's focus goes on

you or if you stay silent and speak only what is valuable then people will listen to you people value you people will remember you and

recommend you number four silence builds trust in order to achieve success connecting with successful people

and developing effective relationships becomes very essential for me relationship is very important in life

so if you want to develop effective relationships or if you want to connect with successful people what you need you must build trust

and to build trust you must listen them carefully that's what successful people do they do not do all the talking but you can see some people when they meet with successful people they start chattering they go busy talking about their own stuff but the successful

people mostly focus on listening they ask questions about the other person and listen to them when you listen a person

carefully they will realize they are valuable in your life they will feel themselves as an important person and in this way they will trust you number five

silence helps to negotiate when the other person is silent you wonder what they might be thinking so turn the tables let them wonder what you are

thinking maybe you got a job and have been asked for salary or the company

mentions a salary figure but you want more than that so do not answer immediately do not say i will take it or no pause stay silence for a moment the discomfort of the silence will make the other person want to feel the void and start talking

let them reveal information that helps you to have the upper hand moving

forward in the conversation number six silence build strength most of us don't like silence and we are afraid of it

because we equate silence with insignificance as we want to be hard and seen liked

and loved by people we all want people's attention we all want to sow people we always want to be something or someone good in the eyes of another person we are depending on other people's opinion as their opinion makes us feel good also

sometimes their opinions makes us feel bad so we give our power away we are constantly in search of something we already have but we already have

everything we truly need but we can't recognize them until we become silent and get rid of distraction silence gives us a sense of cell value everything is within us if we recognize how to connect

allowing silence listen to our breathe it opens the possibility to find out the self-value right there you don't need people to tell you that who you are and

what you are capable of what you can and what you can't which they ultimately tell you from

their own limited perspective instead of that if we stay silent we would find our

inner voice and would realize that we

are already all we need to be and accepting who you are is a victory

silence will makes you realizing what's your strength silence will help you define your strength silence is really powerful.